2 States..Bihar n Rajasthan..

Well those who thought that this a 2 States movie or book review then you are wrong. Those who also thought that I got the states wrong..then please read ahead for the complete story.

Well this boy is a paka Jain who does not eat onion, ginger, etc goes to Mandir daily. We have to adjust for him every time we go out for  food. He is my favorite bakra and njoy pulling his leg.

Now the gal is from from the land of Laloo, loves Malda mangoes and loved to eat non veg food but now turned into a veggie. I have seen her in pain and go to doctor for multiple times but her energy and smile can put any pain go away.

Now something happened between these young people some years back. They tried to hide it and make it work. I know from my experience it would have been a great struggle but then to get married at the end of the day is a great achievement.  It is just a beginning  to a wonderful phase in your life.

Pragya Tiwari and Chirag Mehta , Kyra, Deepa and me would like to wish you a great happy married life.  I would like to apologize for not being there and dancing drunk in your baraat but our wishes and love will always be there.

I am not good at expressing my feelings but just want to give you both a jaddu ki jappi.
Cheers !!!

Three wonderful ladies in my life

I have not been blogging for long now but due to twitter and facebook it has been easy to put my thoughts in few words. But then as the title of blog suggests it would have been difficult to express myself in few words.

My Mother : She is my defense lawyer as I call her fondly. Anyone and anybody can say anything against me but then she will defend me at any cost. She is inspired by the Bollywood mother of the 80's and completely filmy. She taught me what unconditional love is. She has been through a lot in life and things are always difficult in joint family. She is disciplined for fitness and has an extra energy after Kyra's birth. She loves signing and last year we found she can dance as well. She loves watching movies and can watch any movie..even those dubbed ones. I sometimes take her for granted and say things which I don't mean. But I will be always be there for you Mom !

My Wife - Deepa's introduction to my life was not planned and it has been an amazing journey with her. With 10 years of knowing her and 4 n half years of marriage has taught me a lot. She is the most independent strong minded individual.  She always has been there to listen and give me the correct advice.  Saw her go through a lot during pregnancy and post Kyra's birth and witnessed completely different side of her. My respect for women was raised to a different level after watching Deepa go through this phase. She is really the better half in my relationship and you complete me dahling.

My princess: Kyra my bundle of joy who arrived 2 months back in our life has changed it completely.  Being a parent is so difficult job that I can manage complex projects but managing Kyra is a different ball game.  She is teaching me something everyday but the joy to hold her every night  and sing her to sleep brings a happiness I cannot explain in words. I can't predict the future but  I hope I you are a combination of my mother and wife.

These 3 wonderful women have taught me and molded me into the person I am and they will keep on influencing me in future.

For them I can sing my fav hindi song which I only sing for Kyra
"Kyunki tum hi ho
Ab tum hi ho
Zindagi ab tum hi ho
Chain bhi, mera dard bhi
Meri aashiqui ab tum hi ho"

For my non hindi speaking friends the song means that you are the only one I love and none else.